fix(shared-sqs): deadlock in create_queue, UI sent_at bug, Redis deploy, TLS ingress (v0.1.13-v0.1.14)

- fix: add SyncQueues.Unlock() before return in create_queue.go happy path (deadlock after first CreateQueue)
- fix: UI m.sent -> m.sent_at (message dates always showed as dash)
- feat: add deployments/k8s/redis.yaml (Redis persistence)
- chore: update deployment image to naeel/shared-sqs:v0.1.14
- chore: update ingress.yaml (TLS, qu.kube5s.ru)
- docs: add thinking log 2026-04-10

shared-sqs/deployments/k8s/ingress.yaml

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 # deployments/k8s/ingress.yaml
 # Ingress для shared-sqs на домене qu.kube5s.ru
-# Created: 2026-04-09
+# Created: 2026-04-09, Updated: 2026-04-10
 apiVersion: networking.k8s.io/v1
 kind: Ingress
 metadata: